Should I forgive my friend, or is this the end?

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Forgiving does not mean going back to how it was. You can put the anger down and still choose to stand further away. Ask what you would need to feel safe around them again, not what they should have done. You are deciding what your friend deserves. Ask what carrying this costs you each morning. Sometimes forgiveness is not a gift to them. It is you putting a heavy bag down.

Should I forgive my friend, or is this the end?

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